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oke but this info i got out of this thread (and of the info of my friends) some guys do like facials (or whatever cumshot) others wont, if a girl does them, they have to like it (which is an other thing with girls working for paysites, they do it for the money, you cant tell me different if they accept an facial while they dont like it), woman think its more the domination fact and guys think different, its not a domination thing............ so conclusion....hell guys are strange persons:D stu<-- checking back the news messages about a guy who was fucking the pavement, a guy who shooted his cum on bikes and a guy who liked to shoot his cum on stranges shoes...........guys are strange and just like to shoot their cum on whatever they prefer:D (and then saying woman are from mars....yeah right:D)
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LOL Stu... I now have waaaaay too many cum-based images swirling around my head.
Guys - thanks for all your responses, this is really interesting. I think what Stu has said before is really interesting. A lot of women see a facial as a power-play/domination thing. Yes, there are some women who like it, but plenty of others who aren't so keen. Not surprising, given that a facial does not really involve female pleasure, beyond the psychological. Guys may see it differently. Some do see it in terms of domination, others just see it as simply sexy, an acceptance of pure sex, perhaps. I do find it interesting that a lot of people in porn say "but there HAS to be a money shot." Does there really? I think that is one of the differentiating ideas behind women's porn. What if a scene ended with a female orgasm and no male cumshot whatsoever? Would it be the end of the world? LOL Now I've gotten on my soapbox. I'll promptly get off again. :) |
My girlfriend loves when I cum on her face. Sometimes after I do it she will hurry to look in the mirror and gets all excited when here face is coated really good. Knowing she likes its so much makes me love to do it.
For us it makes us feel dirty, just something we like to do. If she didn't desire it I wouldn't like it so much. But man it is hot knowing she craves it. ded |
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stu<--- asking their friends.....(yeah yeah:D) how many times, your guy gave you a great pussy lick and there was no penetration involved before or after you got an orgasme? So he was there only to pleasure you and didnt wanna come himself even he has a boner?....oke Stu<--- got all kind of %%$@@$% bad words thrown to her head....i told them i need to know (as long i dont use their names to post they will tell me:D).........now thats sad....0%, they just told me everytime any sex thing happens there has to be penetration and more, so i asked them what you girls want to see "for woman" Porn? mmmmm answer: more focus on the woman, not all woman need to get penetrated and see the cumshot or have a inside cumshot, they just wanna be special (see we woman are easy:D), all focus has to be on the pleasure of the woman, 2 different worlds, i do think that man need the cumshot, must be something in their genes, but not all woman need that.
Now give me more questions , so i can bug my friends:D |
Now, if only we could reliably get women to buy porn. If I understood how to make anywhere near the same amount of sales to women as i can do to men, I'd jump into the womens market and set my wife up as a fulltime women's porn builder.
It's pretty clear (to me at least) that women are just as obsessed with sex as men are, but the brain and mind triggers seem to be somewhat different. And, I suspect the triggers for womens excitement would be way more humbling and threatening to most men, as one senses that the triggers for men can be threatening to some women. It's the old 90/10 thing. What do your friends think about rough sex? |
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haaa now this is realy interesting......i just putted my friends in different groups:
the 20 to 30 year old group: rough sex, slapping, spitting hard fuck, whipes, deepthroath, domination, humiliation....all cool to them. the 30 to 40 year old group: some like the rough sex, like hard fuck, domination, some bdsm. But now a huge thing, well i think so........the group 20 to 30 years old, about 85% say they do it to please their guy, i have asked them, and if you dont like it? they still will do it........just to make their guy happy! Now the group age 30 to 40......they will do some things, but if they dont like it, they wont do it and tell the guy, so they are willing to try things but they wont do all to please their guy just to make him happy, they want some satisfaction also and want to have fun having sex, now from the group age 30 to 40 are some who are realy long married, they say their sex has got more better now when older then the time they where 18 because they are in a long realationship and both sides know what they like and not like and are willing to try more things. What i am surprised with is the fact that still woman just do all to please their guy instead of thinking of the facted that they can have just fun too.......Stu<-- is gonna bug their friends with more questions:D but not today, its 12:28 after midnight here and i promised my k*ds to take them to the towns tomorrow for queensday, so i need to go to bed now! But i will get into this tomorrow eve again! |
Wow Stu... I think your story of the young women is rather disturbing. It's that kind of anecdotal evidence that gets feminists up in arms about porn... it's like the guys are copying what they see in porn and the girls are just going along with it.
I am personally uncomfortable with the whole rough sex thing - especially as it seems to always be the guy beating up the girl, there's never a level playing field. BDSM and power play I love, it's structured, it's sexy, but rough sex... I don't get it. And once again, I would think that that kind of sex would be a minority kind of fetish, but porn has pushed it into the mainstream. All my personal opinion of course. I know there are women who enjoy it and if its safe sane and consensual, fine. |
Well, my idea of rough sex is pretty vanilla - just physical strength and taking control and fucking hard and a little mean. Not asking, doing, taking the hard work of sex, deciding what to do, out of her hands.
Not hitting or whipping or such - slapping the ass and thighs is about as far as I like to go. Spanking, but not to the point of crying or anything other than a red ass and a bit of tenderness. Hand on throat, but without squeezing or breathplay. Hair pulling and control, but not the the point of pulling hair out or real pain. If you grab right, you have a lot of control, but it feels nice for her. Real bdsm people would consider me a wimp, as would any real sub, ha ha ha. |
Well there you go Bill, I wouldn't have really thought of that as rough sex so perhaps I'm on a different page. My vision of it involves all the spitting, slapping, choking, verbal abuse, nasty stuff.
I guess it's just a matter of degree, in a way. Power play with the volume turned up to 11. Again, OK if it's consensual, not so good if it's just to please your partner or if you're not into it. Tristan Taormino is bringing out an expert guide to rough sex which will be interesting to watch because it will be a female friendly movie. |
I know this isn't really the board for discussions of non-consensual sex, but as someone who 'discovered' my interest in what people call rough and/or bdsm-style sex very early, I can tell you that for many men and women in the Lifestyle there is a shared belief best expressed by the phrase "consent is over-rated."
It's closely related to the concept that bondage doesn't really begin until you no longer wish to be bound. Because until then you're only bound. It's only when you want to be released, and aren't, that bondage actually begins. For some, the idea of 'negotiating' in advance to be sure that nothing will happen to which they haven't already agreed, or the concept of using a 'safe word' to give them a measure of control is so very far from how they live their lives. Note: I'm not talking about going around forcing people you don't know to do whatever you want them to. As much fun as that is, it's not really legal to do. However, there are people who live by the belief that "consent is given once," and that it's given to a person, not to some subset of activities. Just wanted to offer a little measure of alternative viewpoint to the discussion of consent. Note to Bill: That doesn't sound like a wimp to me. It sounds like you know what you like to do and you make sure that you do what you like. Wimps are those who, even if they know what they'd like to do, rarely manage to make things happen they way they 'wish' they would. They don't understand that first is the will, and all else follows. -- "Real Life is Unsafe, Insane, and Non-Consensual." -- The Book of Simon |
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Also, if you derive any level of satisfaction or arousal from pleasuring your partner, you tend to do things that don't inherently please you. Oral sex doesn't physically stimulate the giver, but many people enjoy performing oral sex because they know that they are pleasuring the hell out of the receiver, assuming they know what they're doing. I doubt any woman enjoys taking a facial cumshot for the pure enjoyment of needing to run to the bathroom and wash the cum out of their eyes before they start stinging. They do it because they want to pleasure their partner in whatever twisted manner which is most effective. Whatever you do during sex only works if both partners walk/limp away without being hurt or pissed off. Of course, I also believe that we tend to have far too much puritanical guilt and regret over our perversions and deviations. But that's a whole other rant. |
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Very interesting post there...it sounds a little like "consent to not consent" or something like that. Voluntarily being involuntary. |
I love facial cumshots because girls have pretty faces and the last thing that should be on their faces is sperm from a mans penis.It's just so inappropriate and wrong looking that it turns me on.And it really gives me a hard on when they get totally nailed with cum and just act real natural about it like it's normal for cum to be on their faces.
My x girlfriend cut me off from giving her facials after she saw my collection of porn that was mostly anabolic/gonzo type stuff and thought that I was getting way to much pleasure from them and she was right! It's a total fucking power trip! I just waited till she fell asleep and then I would 'Peter North' the hell out of her!:D |
stu<---- is going to ask again her girlfriends, because she thinks the powerplay thing and please your man ( even you dont like it for real) is different with a long realation ship or just a one night stand.
in a power play thing you can make rules (like prostitutes do) but there is still a trust thing, i think in a long (sex) realationship you know eachother so well that you hardly have to make rules about how far you go, i think the powerlplay and pleasure your guy thing has to do with, long realtionships and age. (stu<-- knows about the hoker thing because her grandma was one that time.........dont fucking ask) |
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I can say i do have problems with some sites i review when i see a girl in deepthroath or half choking with a hand on their throath, even the scene is fake, some pics surely does show very rude to me, now lucly i dont see much of these pics, because i realy dont like it, but then i think of the facted the girls or woman they use in those pics are there for the money.......and yeah maybe some woman like to get humiliated like that, but its something i cant imaging myself. Reminds me of a docu i saw about a sponsor (which name i wont mention here) about a girl realy crying before and aftewards when she did the scene, she didnt like it but did all for the money and also got bad words thrown at her head because she told them she didnt like to do that and yes she still did the scene, because she needed the fucking money. |
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As a chick- if I'm allowed to comment, I think its grose - I dont wanna watch it or have it done to me. I think its demeaning, not to mention a waste of good protein :) |
My wife really gets into my pulling on her hair when having sex, but thats as rough as we get, fine by me, not my thing, to each their own though. Long as it's okay with both.
As for facials, I like it some times, think just for something different. Sure not dominating or power trip for me. As for swallowing, I've tried but my wife has a hard time with it. She tires but says it's the taste thats the problem. More of our female "friends" have swallowed than my sweetie. lol Facials in movies are okay, for me it's more a turn on to see the girl with her mouth opening, waiting for it. It's a turn off when you can tell the female doesn't like it in her mouth, when she makes "that face". It's also a turn off when she has to show the proof, kinda eeeww... Now a girl that takes it and smiles or seems to really enjoy it, thats good. One thing I don't understand is the bukkake, thats just to much and really not enjoyable to watch. |
I personally like facials and most cumhots in general and like to see the cum blown somewhere on the woman whether its her tits, ass, face, or stomach. I've given a facial two or three times before but mostly just like to blow my load on the girls tits or ass. I think it's probably more natural to cum in the woman and feels better but I have to say that I like the cumshot better no matter what type of cumshot it is. With porn I suspect most men don't want to always see what may seem natural or regular but whatever turns them on.
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All this talk is giving me a "boner"
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Personally, I see nothing wrong with domination roleplay and rough sex as a la Bill there. I think it's hot, and let me tell you UW, in this household, we did not wait for the man to initiate those kind of games (or anal sex for that matter). It's not a male thing, and not only men watch porn (surprise, surprise!). Women watch the same kind of porn, and I'm pretty sure it changes sexual practices in societies where most people have internet access. A good friend of mine, an educated woman in her late thirties (a doctor, actually), told me a while ago how she was into gangbangs and rough sex when it comes to watching porn, and loves to feel like a whore in bed. I am pretty sure most women would have been reluctant to admit that a couple of decades ago, and maybe less likely to even feel like that.
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Oh, forgot this was about facials! I am not a man, and my man isn't into facials at all. I like them, though we don't practice. I think there's something very primal and total in watching a man cum, and if he's going to do that so we get to watch, might as well be on his partner ;)
I can see why it would be common in porn, where you want "proof" that the guy came and they really "did it". If he cums in her mouth, they need to do these shots where she keeps her mouth open and plays with it. If he cums in her pussy or ass, there has to be a creampie shot in the end. Facials are just easier to shoot, I guess? |
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Very much so. |thumb Angle issues don't come into play much. |
I have enjoyed this post!
I'll take a facial/mouthful anyday! Mixing it with food I'll pass on though, but have been known to gargle with it |thumb |
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Other then Lorsha and one other webgirl that I know, most webgirls I know that run their own sites do not like facials, including myself. There are very, very few women that I know that actually like receiving facials most of us find it disgusting and annoying.
There use to be another board that the members were made up of single amateur girl sites and we had a long thread about this and I finally realized that I was very normal in my feelings of being turned off by receiving a facial. So I find it interesting that most of the women that say they do like getting facials in this thread are not content girls. I will let him cum in my mouth and some will drip on my mouth/chin...but nothing more.....it’s just how it happens sometimes. |
What really amazes me is all these very obviously "fake" cum blasting sites that have popped up a lot recently. I really don't see the appeal to a guy watching a fake 20" cock, shooting a gallon of fake cum all over the place. Yet I am seeing them pop up more and more on tgp's-mgp's.
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I'm curious about what one would use to create fake cum. Hair conditioner looks the part but I'm sure no-one wants that in their eye (and it can't taste too good).
Here I am, Wednesday morning, pondering the consistency of fake semen. I love my job. |
I've heard they use some kind of commercial drink mixer stuff - pina colada I think.
Looks kind of like cum, tastes good. |
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We have shot with Score Group for XL and a few other of their mags, they mixed white colored lotion with lube for fake cum.
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* starts wondering why she's taking notes...* Now I'm thinking of what other substitutes live in the pantry. My first thought was tartare sauce... but it's got gherkins in it. |
I used to have to fuck the ex wife, i remember the thought of that was pretty fucking rough. |badidea|
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I do remember a guy introducing himself to the members of the old Condom/Netpond board - he worked for a company that edited pics & his job was to add cum to the faces of the girls - I guess when you use the same guy for all your shoots, his loads were less than spectacular by the end of the day & this guy was there to solve that little problem.
I remember asking him if his parents were proud of his career :) |
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