Teens In Ponytails And Such ...
 

I am filling my new directory with "single girl" sites -- you know, women with their own sites. I don't mind the BDSM, gagging and other extreme stuff as long as the woman appears to be consenting. What really gets me, and I refuse to add, are teen sites where there is an implication of the model being under 18. Women with ponytails, stuffed animals posed in a youngster's bedroom and other crap like that really strikes a nerve with me. Does anyone share this with me or is feeling, "there is a 2257 page and it says she's 18 so I don't give a shit"? I know I am an accredited pornographer but that stuff and implied rape sites are not acceptable in my opinion. Thoughts?

Well, my sister got pulled over when she was 23 ... because the cop thought she looked too young to drive even (learner's permit age 15, license age 16)! So I tend to cut the "over 18 but look baby-faced" some slack, because my sister is almost 30 and still gets carded for buying cigs (legal age 18) not to mention her stuffed animal and Barbie collection ... and this fall I get to start getting her back for all the "Big 3-OH" jokes I have had to endure these past (mumble unintelligibly) years.

Yes, the type of surfer who goes for these kinds of sites may be ... er, "questionable" in taste, but as long as the gals are of legal age and they have proper records I tend to be okay with it.

The "sleep" sites I refuse to touch, too close to "soft rape" for my tastes.

I hear ya Art. I refuse to list that kind of content as well.

There's a big difference between someone looking much younger than they really are, and deliberately dressing and using props to make the model appear to be younger than legal age.

My wife is almost 40 and she wears a ponytail and likes stuffed animals. And she has a poster of a wolf in our bedroom. She does her damdest to look younger than she is too. LOL.

I try to not make judgments on visual implications as they can be too subjective. Words are a little less subjective since we have dictionaries that give them common meanings. Models portraying babysitters are often shown in the setting you describe, and they generally look 18+ and of course, they have 2257 records.

I'm of the opinion that as long as it can be proven the model is of legal age, it should be legal to use the images. If the model is portayed explicitly as under 18 (even if she is 20), I'll GTFO and never consider dealing with the site in question again. That doesnt mean I'll use such content, it means I'll not hold it against anyone that does

On a side note, I won't have anything to do with imagery involving violence or defacation.. I don't avoid it because I think its bad or sleazy, I just don't like violence and defacation. This cuts me out of lots of legitimate fetish business, but so be it. For those of you that are into fetish material, best of luck to you, but it just isnt my thing. You can have my share.

Yah, I always thought sites geared towards that market were creepy.

It's all personal preference if you list them or not. Personally, I don't care since I enjoy the fantasy of all kinds of porn, not just pigtails (which my wife wears on occasion....and she's far from teen lol)

To me, they usually don't even look that young anyways.

The legal system and biology get a little out of synch, so we have fantasy to fill the gap. No harm done as long as the models are legal.

LOL. The legal system and the legal system are a little out of sync. You can legally do all kinds of dirty hardcore sex stuff with 16 year olds in most states, but you cant look at a naked picture of them while you do it.

I don't have a problem with it. I know a few strippers who do the ponytail and stuffed animal thing to make a little more cash.
If it fulfills a fantasy in some guy with a credit card's mind, and is legal, why not?
I'm not going to join the thought police.

Im not against it. Im against the real shit. But I cant say that seeing someone dressed up in a plaid skirt and white shirt with ponytail and black leather shoes makes it a bad thing. I personally feel that most if not all do it in a playful so far over the top way that it comes off as totally fake - if that type of site helps get a guy off and keeps him from living it out..Im OK with it.

Even if I'm fucking 36 years old?? Guess I ain't gonna knock on your door next Halloween ... last Halloween I went to class in pink striped flannel pajamas, slippers, and carried a stuffed puppy. Only day of the year I don't get funny looks going out in public dressed like that! A gal in my lecture had the "traditional schoolgirl" uniform complete with a blazer, and I know she was old enough to drink.

Bottom line: it's a fantasy, and as long as the gals are 18 or older I don't have much problem simply because, as you mention, I would prefer the creeps be looking at 18-21 yos in those outfits and jerking off ... with the legal statements on the page! .... than to actually go try to do something IRL where they either don't check IDs or specifically look for ones under legal age.

As mentioned above, the 18 is federal, while some states are lower ... some much lower.

Fantasy is fantasy.

I'm just thinking how some would classify alien sex fantasy. Where do you fit a nude scene from "Species".

that's my true perversion ;) send it all to me!

For me it really depends on the intent and actual appearance of the model in question. A 30-something milf dressed in that outfit, and in a matching setting is very obviously role play. A petite 18 year old in the same scenario is an entirely different situation.

It really comes down to the perceived intent. An entire site built around that petite 18 year old in such attire and settings is obviously targeting a surfer with a "younger than legal" fantasy. Yes, still a fantasy and still completely legal, but one that I want absolutely no part of on any of my sites.

I agree when people say "to each his own". That's is why we have our own sites. We can decide what goes on it (or not). I have nothing against young looking women (or BDSM type sites). I would and do list those. None-the-less, I personally feel uncomfortable with implied CP (and implied rape). If there is a notion that the person is not consenting then I have an issue.

Toby you put it very well.

maybe I'm coming on a bit strong on this ... but for eleven years my sister has been bitching about how people think she's a little kid and how she isn't taken seriously, carded for cigs, pulled over *only* for her appearance that time, and always carded for drinks (sometimes multiple times in one night) all because she inherited the "babyface" gene from dad's side of the family. At least my brother and dad could grow mustaches to combat that. As I mentioned, she's 29 now, and if she put on the exact same schoolgirl outift y'all would cry foul about her looking underage ... I am not joking or exaggerating. I guess y'all might call this the model's perspective.

Oh yeah, sister has an extensive stuffed animal collection, a Barbie collection, and will suck on lollipops in places smoking is not allowed.

But it's OK to put a teen in a diaper, give her/him a pacifier and put her/him in a crib...............


NOT!

You have a sister? |loveyou

|catfight|
mess with my baby sis and I'll have to hurt you ... actually she can do that herself nowadays ...

Wait, considering it's *YOU* maybe we won't hurt you ... you'd enjoy that ya perv! |lol|

LOL sorry to break your heart, but while she ain't legally married she's getting close to the state hitting them with "common law marriage"

If she built an entire adult site based on looking "too young to be legal", then I'd still have a problem with it, whether she's really 19 or 29. The actual age of the model isn't the issue.

I understand your position fully Toby and respect it 100% Definitely a fine line in adult with certain subjects. Better safe than sorry but above all you have to do what you feel comfortable with.

I also respect your position, Toby (don't get the wrong impression!) et al but I would much prefer a legal model who looks underage than the opposite situation of one that looks 18-20 and actually underage. That said, there are hardcore and fetish niches I personally am not comfortable with.

But this discussion isn't about actual underage models. None of us support that in any way shape or form. There's nothing there to discuss.

From the very first post this discussion has been about legal age models that appear younger than 18 deliberately pushing the 'look younger than legal' aspect. I'm more than a little uncomfortable with that.

And for the record, I'm also not comfortable with many of those hardcore fetish niches.

Why?