I'll give you a little secret
If you talk to a a woman, don't say that you work with Internet Marketing, Adult Webmaster or something else that sounds boring.
You create and sell sexual fantasies to people and then explain for 5 minutes what kind of fantasies, how you come up with it and blah blah blah. For some reason I haven't met anyone yet that doesn't find it fascinating and hasn't been turned on by it. Women seems to like fantasies