This is like when someone says "Hey! I have something important to tell you.......hmmmmm nope nevermind"
I'm not curious at all!
Bottomline is though that it might take a thread from you to get the attention, but afterall it works - thats the great thing with the adult biz, people know the importance of the networking and that it can hurt your biz to fuck someone up! .... at least most do.