Wow Juggs, your predicament is substantially different than that of my situation. I'm trying to see it from every possible angle (no pun intended there) and to be quite honest, if I found out my beautiful and sexy daughter and her husband were doing what you and she are doing...I think you have a pretty good idea where THAT sentence ends - in prison, for 2nd degree. |shocking|
It all depends on how you are going to present this to her parents. IF you give her the impetus and let her take the "bull" by the horns so to speak and if she sticks to her convictions, they your wounds won't be as severe.
If however she is not a strong character with her parents, you are in trouble. You will be looked upon as the scapegoat and depending on what natioanlity they are, this won't bode well for you.
You and your wife are gonna have to have to sustain a united front. Perhaps showing them that is opportunity has some serious up$ide to it. That means no chinks in the armour. The will of both of you collectively as ONE must outlast any emotional outburts or derision from her parents. Its the only way you too can have any hope of standing up to them. Remember, she may be your wife, but she is FOREVER their little girl and I am certain this NEVER entered their minds.
Best of Luck Juggs. I mean that sincerely.