Hi Bradx81
I wish I had some advice for you, but I don't - those sites do look very nice to me, which is why I too am confused
One thing I can say is that with the SE thing, from what I've learned, it's better for them to find you as opposed to you going to them (except Dmoz - keep submitting to them & pray they eventually get to reviewing your sites - LOL)
You might want to take
http://www.hornypornpost.com/ & move that page to main.html (or something like that) & change index.html to a warning page with a few link trades & a link on the bottom to a hub or sorts that lists all YOUR free sites. Then go out & trade soem 1st & 2nd page links with other TGP's & Link Lists (I can have MrMaryLou contact you about some trades with some of my crappy TGP's & link lists if you want - LOL)
If you can set up a few decent trades (for traffic as well as SE purposes) that may help things along a bit
