Okay, I have pissed off a great deal of people and re-reading this thread I can completely see why. You are all right I am being anal about this. I think part of the problem is I am completely being misunderstood.
First of all, I have no problem with adult websites being completely commercial based. Way to go if you are successful. I do realize a vast majority of these sites and blogs are done by those in the adult industry.
The problem I had, was the extremes this bog went to, compaired to what most others are doing. Would it really have been so hard for this blogger to take the extra step and instead of saying "contact me on alt.com and my master will make arrangments for me meet and fuck you" to instead say "my master will review the profiles and speak with everyone who contacts me to ensure they are serious but as of yet no one has been refused". Same exact message. Only difference, those who do think the blog is real, see some genuine care taking place, not abuse.
Or instead of saying "threw scraps of food on the floor for me to eat" said "threw scraps of food in my dog bowl". Or instead of comments like "my master said I am never to think, simpily obey" saying "when my master is arround, I am simpily to do as commanded without a second thought of hesitation".
The difference in all these things is those who believe this site is real, do not say "oh so this is what bdsm is. Nice! I need a slave like that". All the same messages are there, only presented without the abuse factor. The people looking to wack their weenies while reading the site, are going to do so either way. Hell I'd even go for it if the blog has a little note on a disclaimer page or something similiar that said "this is my sexual fantasies, these ar not real".
I am not trying to be an asshole about this. I truely think its sites like these that cause people to start thinking this is the way bdsm is done. In result you see cases like
http://www.queenstribune.com/copblot...INDICTEDB.html
where a guy take slaves (as in kidnappe d women) to a dungeon and tortures them and creates a website about it. Then you see laws like 2257 come around to stop this kind of action and in result take away freedom of speach and expression for the rest of the adult industry (in the US).
So now I am considering tking down my analistic review of the site and putting up something that says "I stopped trading links with this site because I found out it is a fantasy blog and not real in any way". The difference being I don't bash the blog, just let my visitors know why the link is gone.