Hey Joe
I got your email, just been a bit lazy this weekend. Like Ramster said, it's better to build small free site to promote your paysite, as most link lists don't usually do straight-up trades with pay sites these days.
This will save you from having all those "traffic leaks" (your current trades) on the paysite, as most of us are of the mind that you should offer little or no reason for the surfer to leave the tour - get them to the join page
If you're looking for examples of free sites, just poke around the threads in here - while this forum is mostly for "why didn't I get listed?" stuff, most of the thread starters correct their mistakes & post the improved free site for feedback.