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Originally Posted by sbm4latinaz
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When what used to be a true amateur site in look and feel , with pics that looked like they were taking after a long night of drunk passion , only to slowely become a site were the AMATEUR frolics around in what looks like a palace or penthouse suite, you begin to loose what was once the image that "hey I could meet and bang this chick" .
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Don't take this as an insult, but it sounds like what you're looking for is "amateur porn" featuring poor people. You've repeatedly mentioned how you like beer bottles on tables, dead cigs in ashtrays, and "real" apartments as settings, but in actuality, that just sounds like a search for the cliche of a lower-class setting. I'm not a millionaire living in a penthouse suite, but I don't have trash lying around my house. Having a dirty apartment, to me, means nothing about content more than the fact that the people who live there are slobs, and I don't find junk and garbage in photos to be erotic, personally.
On a side, I do understand the desire for lower production values to entice surfers' fantasies that they "could" bang the featured babe. Not all of us who run our own sites are going for that, though, and I state several times on my site that I'm not available for sex and that I don't date people via my site. It's one of my most popular questions in chat and via email, and I'm always honest about my personal preferences. (Some folk, like Danny and Carol, regularly have call-outs on their site for regular joes to come have a gang bang, and that's great, as long as it's real and it makes everyone happy.) But, they have one of the very few sites run by "true swingers" who solicit participants from it and actually invite them over. For me, I like sex and I like being an exhibitionist, and I like being able to do those things from the safety of my home, in an environment I control. I think it's stupid to have a site set up to make it seem that the members could be invited over for a shag when the girl really doesn't want that, that's an element of dishonestly that I'm not cool with. I realize we sell fantasies, but it is entirely possible to make a living off selling porn that doesn't play on people' emotions or trick anyone into thinking they're getting more than content for their $18 a month, if indeed, they aren't.