It's rare that I get one, it seems I don't get listed. GG LOR is one, I've not heard anything about my last 2 submits at LOR and their not listed.
http://www.cyberlinkxxx.com/asian_bodyshot/1/
http://www.cyberlinkxxx.com/asian_banana/1/
Part of the problem is I don't know how long I should wait till I ask. UW was behind at F Earls', I didn't know, so on one of my submits I asked what the problem was. He had just recently listed the sites in question, about 10 days after I sub'd them. So no problem.
So how long do you wait so you don't feel stupid?