Yep, make sure you're getting those sites listed. I don't see anything terribly wrong with them that would prevent listing ...the sites are pretty clean. Only thing I see that 'may' be causing you listing probs is the length of your main page. That's a pretty long scroll to find the gallery links.
As others mentioned, you could spice up your sales text a bit. And try to hit some more exotic niches. Teens can be a real pain to sell...there's SO much of it out there for free.
Just a few ideas of smaller niches that sell pretty well...
BBW
Shemale
Panties
Foot Fetish
You get the idea...something a bit more specialized and not so over-saturated as teen.
Sorry to hear about the family issues
This can be a tough business and it can take a while to start generating decent revenue.