Hey drtongue,
Since that looks like a free site am I safe in assuming you don't own an affiliate program?
First, there was a recent thread posted by cybersexhound where alot of good posts were made about kickstarting your sales.
Also, don't wait a year to ask what the hell went wrong

There's alot of information out there and plenty of people willing to answer questions.
Regarding your free site:
You can't rely just on banners and photos to make money for you. If you were a car salesmen, would you try to sell cars without talking to your customers?
As MML said on OTB, there are three types of surfers: 1) Label readers - people who like to read detail info about their product before deciding to buy 2) Impulse buyers - people who sees a hot pic and whip out their credit card 3) People who walked into the store already knowing what they're going to buy.
Build your site to sell to all three types of surfers. Use killer photos that gets YOU hot and write horny text; Accentuate what's unique about the site using specifics thats believable, not bullshit like "300,000 video clips." Clearly define what the site is selling (e.g. Amateur teen solo site with 24/7 live cam).