New here and I have to say this thread makes me want to stay!
Thanks Cleo for sharing those pictures - how sweet!!! Some great advice there Pornrex. Just thought I might add that your advice #1 applies to the turkey carcass previously mentioned. Those bones can be nasty for cats and you don't want to end up with an emergency vet visit (or worse). Also, I wouldn't recommend cow milk to cats or kittens of any age. There is actually a product called kitty milk (or something like that) that is lactose free and intended for cats.
By the way, for more advice and a great support forum for cat owners I would highly recommend -
http://www.thecatsite.com.