Daisy
Nice looking site. Toby and others have some excellent advice.
Stay away from Vegas for now. There is a show in Phoenix March/April that might be good to hit. It is smaller and is easier to see people and hand out biz cards. So be sure to get some cards before you go.
I'd make more hosted galleries if possible. And make variety so some with panties, some with toys ect so webmasters can list them in different categories. Have a pro make the galleries. All you need is maybe 5 templates and you can make endless galleries. AJ will give you a decent price, $15-20. Tell him I sent you. (Ramster)
http://www.templateempire.com/
Loose the flash. It makes the tour load in a weird way. As far as showing pussy and more? Not really needed honestly. BUT in the tour mention that inside members get to see pussy, dildo fucking or whatever else you do. I would show more nudity but explaining what members get inside is key!!
If you need a tour designer I know a few good ones that are priced good too.
I would also up the price to $24.95 monthly. More money for you and worthwile for webmasters to promote. Making $9.97 a sale plus recurring is not a great deal but $12.47 is because it is easy to believe members will stay at least 2 months on average making at least $25 per sale which is important.