Just checked and don't see your domains or mail addy showing up on the big blacklist
Although, I'm not sure if WetPlace uses that list. Also worth noting is that PenisBot and WetPlace are the same ownership.
I took a peek at your site...and see a couple issues that may give you problems with listings.
Your entry page scrolls sideways at 800 wide...the rest of the site is fine.
Also, your navigation links are way too small...making them hard to find. That's an instant decline for a lot of reviewers.
Other than that, the site looks fine to me. And don't really see anything that would be a blacklisting offense. Unless you'd been submitting sites with these problems for a while...which isn't the case here. Perhaps a script hiccup at WetPlace?
Oh, hope your munchkin feels better soon