Well - as my little avatar usually states - Im definitely not a female - hope ya dont mind a little interjection here for a sec.
jackie brings up a really interesting point and its something I found when I was really pushing the porn for women niche a few years back.
I made up two landing pages for some search traffic/LL/freesites that both actually eventully got the surfer(assuming females here) to the same site.
The landing page that was the dirtiest , rudest talking and graphic way outsold the page I had that appealed to the "romantic, erotic" approach. It changed my views on marketing to women although I still try the laid back, softer approach off and on, I tend to see more sales when I appeal to a more basic level than the "heady, touchy feely" destinations.
Now if some sponsors would just add some sites designed with that in mind, Id be all set
