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Old 2006-05-15, 11:13 AM   #31
tamara
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Personally, I like the "cumslut" variety of pics myself... but the problem is that right now there is an overwhelming amount of misogyny on most of the sites out there. Sites where women are implied to be being fucked while drunk and passed out, for example, do nothing for me. Those sites where women are supposedly craçk whores desperate for a fix, are a total turn-off to me. (And I wonder about the kind of guy who finds that sexy.)

Sites where a woman is a horny slut and wants sex, do. There is a huge difference, to me, namely one of clear and informed consent and obvious DESIRE. If the people having sex together are clearly turned on and having a blast, THAT is hot to me. I really believe that desire and enthusiasm are the key, at least for me they are!

On my site, I might do a rape fantasy shoot, in the larger context of the fact that it is my own site, people can see it is my own fantasy shoot, set up my own way, and that I enjoy it and would write about it both before and afterwards. Alone, something like that is just kind of scary.

I don't actually even know any women who like the romance-y kinds of things... I mean sites like that "For the girls" site are definitely not my kind of porn. To me it feels condescending almost. I KNOW that is not the way lots of women perceive it and I'm glad it sells well. I am for anything that allows women to feel sexually empowered, whether it floats my boat or not!

^5 to Jackie! Whom I did not think was putting down other women, btw. And why is it that when a woman says she's tired of being told what to want, she sounds bitter? BTW, feminism is all about creating choices for women. Multiple forms of porn do that, so I am all for it. But some of the "for women" sites exclude all other forms of porn which may be for women, and I'm honestly not for that.
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