Tigermom, thanks for the compliment and yes, I'd love to exchange links. Your blog looks great and your link is up
Inevitably, discussions on porn for women lead to larger musings on the general state of porn today. More specifically, why isn't it more inclusive? Why doesn't it better reflect the experiences of men and women, of all tastes and sexual identities? Why is so much porn made for angry white men with the maturity of a 14 year old? Why is a lot of it just so very nasty (and by nasty I mean hateful and degrading, rather than "oooh, nasty baby!")
There's a push for a better kind of porn, not just for women, but for men as well. Coz I know a lot of guys feel that way - disappointed with porn's general crappiness. (By the way, my husband really doesn't like porn either, he says it doesn't make any sense LOL I tried to get him to make free sites, he was just hopeless at it.)
So I like to think I'm part of that wider movement. My brand of "porn for women" reflects my personal tastes, but I'm aware that other women may want to see different things.
Indeed, I'm aware that there's plenty of women who are perfectly happy with porn exactly how it is now. In which case, they're well catered to, and it's not my concern.
In terms of language, I'm definitely turned off by "see sluts gagging" kind of wording. For me it's more sexist than sexy; I just can't see past that negative aspect of it. But that's not to say that I'm right and you're wrong. I just know that I'm making a good living appealing to those women who feel the same way I do
I'm partial to a storyline. I'm also partial to plain old hot sex... provided it's not the usual formula of...
oral one way: 3.5 minutes each, hard and soft
oral the other way: 3.5 minutes, ditto
vaginal position one: 3.5 minutes, ditto
vaginal position two: 3/5 minutes, ditto
anal position one (if applicable): 3.5 minutes (no soft core)
anal position two (ditto): 3.5 minutes (ditto)
Woman moans. Man stays silent. No female orgasm. Cue the facial.
...as seen in every single Vivid video. Man, I'm sick of that LOL