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Originally Posted by susanna
But they do get off on it...those that are into it are really into it. I personally think domination and submission is less about sex then it is about alot of other emotional things. The power exchange is a stress reliever for one. I hear some call it an equalizer...these are powerful by day people who enjoy submitting in private because it equalizes them, humbles them etc.
The pain factor during orgasm is something that people get addicted too. To be flogged then fucked to orgasm heightens the orgasm because of adrenaline and endorphins.
You probably have heard of subspace as well. You can read a great bit on this here http://www.powerotics.com/hans/mic/bgeng11.html
Vanilla sex can bring out the endorphins but usually just adrenaline and norepinephrin. An easy way to adding endorphins is pain.
Anyone who wants to try this out as a very simple test (some of you will say this is crazy) is to place clothes pins on your nipples. Males or females can do this. Put them on mid wank.  and yes its going to hurt. If possible, keep wanking and you will get to a point where your nipples no longer hurt even though you have not removed the pins. This is when the endorphins kicked in. If you orgasm at this point you will experience something 5 x greater then your best orgasm ever.
Now safety first. Be careful how long you keep those pins on for. If you just arent getting to the point of no pain ...take them off.
More info then some of you want to read but it may be of interest to some. |
i do understand certain points between pain can be pleasure, but i am realy not gonna put some clothes pins on my nipples, lol and me already laughing if i have to try that on my hubbies nipples, because if there is one thing i may not touch on his body....then it will be his nipples