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Cherie
You have touched on the very meaning/root of the rape fantasy. To be lusted and desired so much that someone would TAKE their pleasure risking the fact you may not enjoy it and in fact be traumatized. The woman with this fantasy is not thinking about how she might be totally freaked out by a real rape just as 99.999999% of real women are.
To be lusted after so much that a man is out of control.
To be lusted after so much that a man takes me.
To be lusted after so much that, in the end, my mind is blown away by matched passion for my attacker.
There is another way that women play this lust for lust out. They partake in the D/s relationship. A woman assumes the submissive role in order to be told what she will do. She will not be responsible for her actions and can be taken by 50 men in one night if it is her masters wishes. In D/s the rape scene is played out in public scenes where the master invites some other master watching to take what he wants from his submissive. When I say public I would imagine this is not at a fet night but a public invite only party for example. Anyways, what I am getting at is that the "being taken without my permission" part of the fantasy is also done by groups of people who do not name this a rape fantasy.
A few other points on this. First off you ALWAYS have to show consent. The BDSM community is video taping all of their scenes. They always film a before interview where they ask her previous experience and what she is expecting today. Then they ask after how she liked it etc. It is the ONLY way to show consentualism. If you want to have a pretend rape paysite, you MUST CLEARLY show consent. This starts with how you word your tour text and ends with this type of before/after interviewing of the model.
The sleeping sex sites pretended to be rape fantasy sites when they first came out and thought that this was fine...that the women really wanted it. There was enough uproar about how you can't just verbalize on a message board that you are not pushing real degredation of women, your tour must say its pretend or about fantasy.
On the issue of porn for women. Of course we are not meeting all womens needs. We have three sites worthy of mention. For the Girls, Sssh and the Clothed Female Naked Male sites are actually making tours that say "heh we are a for women porn site" of course there are other sites that women will like. Example of a site women like might be a femdom site but personally, a site that is femdom where the man always gets sucked or wanked off in the end is not true to its niche...instead its true to men (as usual). So a femdom, lesbian, big cock, total fuck slut etc site made by women for women would be a nice twist. People will say 'what about that site where there are two women who rape men'? That site is still all about the guy getting off and so to me the focus is not enough on the women. If they are trying to meet the needs of females, some of the men would be left high and dry.
The last point I want to make is about the rape fantasy again. I personally have enough respect for those who have gone through a real rape trauma to never make such a site. I will always fight against any porn mongerer that will not show consentualism up front and center in their tour pictures (harder) and text (very very easy to do) and inside their members area. I have respect for men and women and children and WILL NOT stand by while others go for the dollar vs. humankind. They can hide behind the "freedom of speech" arguement all they want but its not appropriate to produce hurtful material.
If a rape fantasy site can be made where the tour and content make it very clear that its all about the fantasy that WOMEN have, then I think it will go over better with the authorities. I would imagine this is the very reason there are few if any of these sites.
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Susanna
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