Since I'm the one doing reviews most of the time, let me say a few words.
Yes, rules got a bit more restrictive at Outlaw's Porn. When you are getting more spam every day than quality stuff, then you have to make some decisions about what to list and what not. I am not implying that any of rejected sites are low quality or something like that but if there are guys/girls who do think that Outlaw's Porn or Sex Top List deserve better, then they are the one to be listed at the first place.
Sexvilly, you are not a newbie and there's no need to act submissive in any way or to beg for something
If you have problems with contact form on some of the link lists, you can contact me or Outlaw here on the board. Don't try sending mail directly because it will bounce that way.