ok so how I did it was...
$headers= "X-Priority: 1\n";
$headers.= "Content-Type: text/html\n";
$headers.= "From: Naughty Holly Webmaster<flick@naughtyholly.com>\nX-Mailer: PHP/\n";
$headers.= "Return-Path: <flick@naughtyholly.com>\n";
mail($email, $subject, $message, $headers, phpversion());
I had to include all those "$headers" and and move the "from" link up to a header call.
It took an additional 3 hours or so to get that right after trying a bunch of other stuff, but I finally got it working
Thanks for the reply cleo
-fLIck