Ok here goes.
Blogging is off in it's own little world and so the answers I am looking for are probably not to be found there.
http://www.adult-collections.com/ was offering link trades for blogs in the blogging section. I follow the link and find something disturbing in the metas, please someone tell me what that term means? You will know exactly the one I am speaking of when you look. Am I correct in my feeling that this is a term to be avoided? I had decided against a trade right off the bat due to the text under School Spanking but....the term in the metas I don't even wish to post here thinking it is not a thing you want associated with adult material. Now maybe this is a hitherto unknown (at least to me) and legitimate porn niche and I am just being overly sensitive.
End of stupid newbie question.