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Last two days have been pretty fucked up for me. My estranged wife came home Monday and unpacked all her stuff, well at least brought all the boxes in that she had been keeping in the Explorer, acted towards me just like everything was fine again. Yesterday we even took the kids to the park, hung out at her grandma's half the day just like old times. Come home and I am thinking things are back on track, then I tried to be affectionate to her, not in a sexual way, but just went to give her a hug and a little kiss. She started flipping out saying everytime I just try to be nice to you, you start in on this touchy feely bullshit. That was enough for me, I told her come home, stay home and start being my wife again today or fill out those god damn divorce papers that you have been threatening me with the last 2 weeks, and saying that is what you are gonna do for the last almost 6 weeks now. She got mad as hell, I guess she thought she was gonna drag me along for god knows how long and keep me around as her back up plan just incase whatever the fuck she has been doing doesnt work out the way she planned. I sat down with her and made her start filling those god damn divorce papers out. She says she aint gonna take anything from me, just her stuff from the house, and is agreeing to full joint custody. She even wants to do this without a lawyer, but I think I am gonna go see about getting a lawyer today just to make sure it all goes thru the way its suppose to and so that I dont end up getting screwed.
Talk about having my whole life turned upside down. Two months ago we were talking about how we wanted to try and buy a house out in the country, and I thought everything was just fine and dandy, and now filing for a divorce. I've caught her myself talking to other guys on her cell phone, I've even had someone I know see her out with another guy. To which she swears up and down again that it wasnt her, she swears she aint having an affair, but like I said I had already caught her lying to me saying she was talking to her brother only to find out it was some other dude. Caught one of her text messages of someone telling her good night, telling her she's beautiful, and telling her they love her. But during all this shit that has been going on the last 6 weeks she's always left every way out for her not to get a divorce, and even has gone as far as saying if she did go all the way thru with the divorce that we could always get remarried. Guess I've finally had enough of her bullshit and if she doesnt end up filing those papers, I am gonna do it myself.
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