I guess the last thing to share here is my list of RSS Search Engines and Directories, Adult Blog Directories and porn related social bookmarking sites. You can download the
XL spreadsheet here
Under the RSS Search Engines and Directories, I've listed them all. But not all accept porn so be sure and check the TOS.
As far as adult directories, with a new blog I like to submit it to the medium to small size directories. Ones with less than 20 submits in the category I like. You can get an initial surge by submitting to the larger directories but since most rank submissions by hits in you won't be able to sustain it. Submit to the smaller ones and get a much smaller amount daily but it will stay consistent while your trying to build your blog up. Then when your a little more established and getting some decent traffic you can submit to the large ones and reap a much greater benefit.
Porn Social bookmark sites are great for getting inbound links to posts.
This is by no means complete but I try.