Annie,
It's been awhile since I've seen any of your sites but if my memory is working today you do build very nice looking sites. I think your problem was with the actual site structure.
domain.com/foldername/mirror/index.html
domain.com/foldername/main.html
domain.com/foldername/gallery1.html
domain.com/foldername/gallery2.html
Try putting all your pages in one folder and I'm sure you will get listed at more link lists.
domain.com/foldername/mirror/index.html
domain.com/foldername/mirror/main.html
domain.com/foldername/mirror/gallery1.html
domain.com/foldername/mirror/gallery2.html
