Bluey, with 11 posts you are a bit of a newbie here.. and possibly a newbie in the industry... but one lesson you should learn quickly is that you should respect those that went before you..
This is your webmaster site...
http://www.adultwebmasters.net.au/
which bears a remarkable resemblance to my long-standing site...
http://www.adultwebmasters.com.au/
... additionally your forum .. looks like this...
http://www.adultwebmasters.net.au/forums/index.php
which also bears a remarkable resemblance to...
http://www.adultwebmasters.com.au/board/
While imitation may be a sincere form of flattery... I DO NOT see it that way.... and neither would my lawyers...
My advice to you would be to make some quick changes...
DD