For most of us - we want to see the url to the pay site and the url to the affiliate program. This way we can look at the tour and sign up for the affiliate program. Use the submit form and select paysite (if applicable) or pm us on the boards or send an email. On established LL's I always send a username and password so the LL owner can get a feel for the members area too.
As an affiliate, I never promote tours (programs) that have links (leaks) on their tours. Therefore I never put recips on a paysite URL. Why should I send traffic to a tour that then send the traffic elsewhere where I get no credit?
On a side note; hit me or
NYJester up if you're interested in a membership area upsell between your site and either
Glass Mannequin or
Bring Me Your Sister. We'd be happy to work with you.