Well, my idea of rough sex is pretty vanilla - just physical strength and taking control and fucking hard and a little mean. Not asking, doing, taking the hard work of sex, deciding what to do, out of her hands.
Not hitting or whipping or such - slapping the ass and thighs is about as far as I like to go.
Spanking, but not to the point of crying or anything other than a red ass and a bit of tenderness.
Hand on throat, but without squeezing or breathplay.
Hair pulling and control, but not the the point of pulling hair out or real pain. If you grab right, you have a lot of control, but it feels nice for her.
Real bdsm people would consider me a wimp, as would any real sub, ha ha ha.
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