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Old 2008-05-17, 04:12 PM   #19
stuveltje
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They were house wives and mothers finding ways to make money so they can spend more time with their kids. What they do on their site, is what they do in real life.
i have never hide for any one that i work in porn bizz, only i had to keep in mind, what i do, also get my kids and hubby involved. So i explained each and anyone who wanted to know, that i am not a performer but a coding lady, because yes when you say as a woman i am in pornbizz, they think you are behind you screen naked masturbating all day, so metioning thats "the real me" will count only for performers and i totally understand that point, but there is also an other side of pornbizz, the coding guys/girls and hell they can get in trouble when they have a fam and kids, because not all will understand the job you do and your kids will be hit by it and your hubby, but i am that person, i will never hide or lie about what i do, but i will try to explain what i do to make the people understand and that works, i always thought this way, job and private life are 2 seperate things, after 8 years i still manage to keep it that way. Again this is my thinking, i have all the respect for all ladies and guys who are a performer in this bizz, but if you show your real you, do you still have some private stuff left in your life with your friend or spouses? or is bizz your life or your life is bizz?

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