My opinions are woth about 7 cents. But here's a few. If it is on your porn site/page/blog it should be there for a reason: making money, getting listed, search engine and compliances with law. Your site looks pretty cool, but every time someone looks at it, you pay money for the bandwidth it takes for them to download pretty images. You background is 100k+, 10 times that is a meg, and it does nothing to make you money, get google to list you or keep you in compliance with law. And when I'm looking for porn, I dont give a rat's ass if the page looks nice, I'm only intersted in the pron.
My advice, learn to code and build your own sites and let designers make money off somebody else. Buy domains, build sites. But keep the site in question as it is, I mean, it does look nice and can be the first of 100 sites you build. Look at the big boy pages, GG for instance, almost 100% text. Its like that for a reason. Text downloads cheap, search engines like it what the surfer wants - links and porn.
Also, your "your banner here" banners and "your links to "http://mysponsor.com/" are doing you a lot less good than they are for the lowlife scumbag squatter they point to.
WPMarketer will let you do better permalinks, and you won't have to constantly hack your .htaccess
http://www.wpmarketer.com/
datafeedr has a good banner rotation add on
http://www.datafeedr.com/random-ads-plugin.php
Use your all in one SEO plugin. Right now its not doing you much good.
And put in some video. I imagine guys that like guys like seeing guys sucking on other guy's dicks. That pure conjecture by the way.
My 7 cents worth.
A parting word, keep an eye out for cheating bastards and hotlinking cocksuckers. This place is pretty clean, but there are lots of crooks out there that will steal everything they can from you... including you pretty background pic :-)