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Originally Posted by grandmascrotum
I do understand the differences in BDSM. But it's my understanding that even if you are experiencing pain in BDSM, you are doing it because you like it and it does give you a form of pleasure. It just seemed that this person was advocating a complete lack of any form of enjoyment for the bottom participants which to my mind is not safe sensual BDSM but torture.
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I would have to agree. BDSM is about loyalty, and complete trust. Trusting the other person that they are going to be able to get into your head and know exactly what makes you tick. People that are truly into bondage/bdsm enjoy the power play, the mind games, and the intensity in the foreplay. There is so much to go into, it could never be summed up in a forum post. There are so many aspects, fetishes, and differences even with in the community. It's the CONSENSUAL bondage that is the enjoyment with both parties.
Pain can be pleasure, depending on how it is inflicted. My absolute favorite bondage is forced orgasm. Tied up, no where to go, (maybe the fucking machines! those things rock!), a vibrator, and the only thing left to do is cum.
Love,
Jax