Hi Maro,
I'm no expert and don't own a link list but there are some thoughts:
1. You need to centre your reciprocal links.
2. The graphic has on the warning page has an outbound link on the lower right side. I would add a "tool tip" so the surfer notices it as his/her mouse hovers over it.
3. Your ad copy needs improvement and expanding (but that will happen over time). There is a ton of free porn out there. Why should a surfer whip out their credit card and buy a membership to the site you're selling?
The recip URL in your sample is
http://chancesforyou.com/fsites/asiagirls/ . The page where the link list can find the URL back to them.
Otherwise, I suspect that it quite worthy of listing.
