Mariah..
.. there are still problems with your site that would stop it getting listed..
But before we get into that.. not many link sites list pay sites these days.. except possibly if they have a webmaster program(as you do), but then you also have "traffic leaks" on your tour pages, that may stop webmasters siging up to your program. eg: If I send traffic to your site.. I want to get credited for it .. I dont want it "leaking" out to some other site, for which I get no advantage.
So... you can do some things to fix your site to get it listed... or you can just follow the normal promotion path of creating galleries and free sites etc that can be listed by the link sites..
It would be easier to get a free sites accepted than trying to fix
http://sexxxhouse.net/
JMO
DD