Damn damn damn damn damn!! I am so very stunned beyond belief. Just like Simon, I have had to go back and read this over to even try to understand this. Losing friends just hurts so much, and there is literally nothing we can do.
One of my mainstream groups uses the virtual candles at Gratefullness.Org at times like this. You can leave messages, much like a guestbook. The candles stay lit for 48 hours. I did set one up for MML -
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...l=eng&gi=GGMML. There is just soooo little we can do but show our support.