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Old 2011-01-09, 05:58 AM   #30
Jel
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Good post UW

Mike - re-read that post by UW. You fucked up, you aren't the 1st, and you won't be the last. You apolgized, a lot would have just gone away and not come back.

Here's the thing: not EVERYONE will accept your apology. It's their prerogative not to, as it is also theirs to ban you if they want. Then you have the flip side, and others will see you've made a fuckup, owned up, accepted you were wrong, and learned from it. Shit, no-one is perfect, far from it, but you aren't going to convince everyone you really ARE sorry, and it's not just a 'I got caught, oops!' - that's the way of the world. To worry about the ones who have banned you, to the point of saying 'delete my account' is pointless. Suck it up as punishment, get on with the building & subbing to the ones who can see you're genuine, and move on
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