Well, that embed did not work on IE it flagged the activeX controls, so I went back to a flash embed, with a clickable link to the wmv version of the movie, and finally got it okd.
I don't know how it will do on mac, but it plays on opera, IE and Chrome in windows. (don't have fire fox to check) right now, I'm not too worried about mobile, but I will probably do a mobile version of the one page tour and give that as an option in the future. (I can at least do that on my own domain, not sure on ae hosted sites).
Site is
http://mostextreme3d.com/ and it is on adult-empire.com
http://sites.adult-empire.com/9164/ in case any one wants to promote it.
It is the most, well, extreme site we have ever done and its converting at 1/16 right now since we put it live less than 24 hours ago.
