Hi Andy,
Love the look of the site, love the community concept, love the content your providing your surfers. Here is what I would change.
1)More and varied sponsors. I only saw one sponsor banner for I think amateurjerkoff. I would like to recommend badpuppy's puppycash program, they are a long standing company who pay out on time and are very fair. Also, my site
http://www.Apollos-Temple.com has an affiliate program if your interested. It is processed through CCBill
2)Your BBS is empty. I know I know, it isn't all that easy to get a board running along. Try getting as many friends as possible to post various things over there to give the appearance of activity. Or, you can try the oldest trick in the book, create a bunch of fictitious member names and have long talks with yourself on the board. Not only does it make the site look active, it can also be therapudic(sp) heh heh
3)Your webmasters page isn't clear on the topic of recips, do you require recips? Or do you prefer clean galleries (no recips at all)
I would suggest since your just starting out that maybe you should require a reciprical link. I dont like them all that much, but they actually do get you some traffic.
On a personal note, and really has nothing to do with anything. For some reason PHP pages are notoriously slow on all of my machines, so I naturally have an adversion(sp) to them, but i know for others they load superfast and make everything come together nicely.
I hope my humble critique of your site may help a little, and the best of wishes to your future success with it
spaz