I agree with opti - I do have some reservations though - fisting for example may seem extreme to many men but to a "real lesbian" it's normal activity...
I am considering the possibility of expanding categories to include a "xxx" section for each - to seperate the "stronger stuff" for those who want it but I have added rules to remove the use of "slut/whore/bitch" from site titles and descriptions for the same reasons as opti is getting at...
In a way it's a response to the mass of free sites now being built and submitted by non-English (mostly eastern European) webmasters who seem to think that degrading women is a turn on for red-blooded males - lol - I just think they're sad little wankers who need to learn English and meet women who can fuck them back
The problem for me is connected to attracting surfers to visit sites; I have no problem with the words slut, bitch, whore etc when they're used in a sexy way, blatant obscenities can be a real turn on during sex imo (especially when used in the first person - as clsunli says) but as a link list owner I get bombarded by sites entitled "old slut posing", "wrinkly old bitch gets naked", "amateur skank" etc etc - lol - I find myself wondering why anybody would want to look at a site entitled "amateur skank" - as I said in another thread - the idea of setting up a used car business called "rusty old pieces of shit" seems like a dead cert way to kill a business!