Mine are pretty hard to butcher & I think I have everything hard coded so that it looks the same to everyone.
Of course, every now & the I see sites that look like the webmaster did the old "Select All" then they changed the font color & my link turns purple inside a green table border
For the most part, I think most link list owners know what they are doing when they make the recip tables - hell, I'm even thinking of adjusting all of mine to make them a smaller width so that they will fit into tighter spaces
When in doubt, ask. If no answer, don't submit or put them up the way they are