If I'm understanding you correctly, you are wanting to get the name of your site out there so people will submit to it. Here are a couple of things I have read about, but have no personal knowledge of:
1. Register your site at The Links Machine
http://www.thelinkmachine.com/
2. Register your site at Way Cool Submit
http://www.waycoolsubmit.com/
3. Register your site with any of the autosubmitters like Russian Submitter. I've read that this will get you into their database and you will get more submissions than you want.
4. Post to all the top adult boards that you are seeking submissions.
Hope that helps some
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