? about being a porn webmistress becoming public knowledge

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My question about being a porn webmistress becoming public knowledge centers around finding a search term that connects me to my porn website empire (only a few sites are populated ... and a couple of them poorly ... LOL!!! ... but I'm having fun :-) and the connection is too imbedded to break.

Are there others who publicly declare I am a porn webmaster and I'm a good person? ~ well shoot ~ that didn't come out right (Which is better; self disclosure before some one "finds out" or if {when} some one does, shrug my shoulders and say ... so? ;-)

Thanks for all the advice in advance