Does everyone in your family know you work in the adult industry?

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Originally Posted by pornrex

Hmmm...you neglected to mention that she was all for this. Perhaps then they must be somewhat aware of her wild tendencies and therefore should not even think to put the blame squarely on your shoulders.

Of course they know she is crazy lol. Heck she left her country and came here for me. She had no reason to leave there, so yes they know.

Originally Posted by pornrex

Your situation is very delicate indeed a sort of damned if you do, damned if you don't.
Let me ask you, do you have a contigency plan?
Could your webcam biz take a turn for the 'racier' than anticipated side? What if this potential storm with the in-laws subsides and then the cash really starts flowing in? Are you BOTH involved in the decision making processes here? I don't want to make you feel nervous or insecure in anyway but YOU must somehow have YOUR ASS covered. I'm not trying to put down your wife at all - hear me out here. You did say you feel you are kind of along for the 'ride' so to speak. That you had a secure source of income for the next 20 years?

We are both involved in the decision making process. Are goals, are for her not to work on the site as a host. If by luck of the gods our site was to take off next month and the money is rolling in we would like to think that the money would be more then enough of a reason to them as to why we are doing this. The plan for me? Well I don't know about most guys who are married. This is my first time and we have only been married for 1 year. I will not BS you. It's hard. And being in this business makes it harder. No pun intended. We have had major almost violent blow outs due to this business. Having men want to constantly date or be in contact with your wife day after day will try any mans confidence in his love for her and her for him. But we always fix thos issues as soon as they come up and always make sure to talk about what freaked us out. As far as a back up plan if things go sour. I can always go back to my government job (20 year paycheck). Well not always but I can return to government service with my same pay and benefits package as long as it's with in 5 years of when I left. Would hate to do it but if needed, will deal with that nightmare. In the sence of the business I am not along for the ride lol. Its the other way around for me, or at least I feel that way. I do work here all day at this darn computer. The site is the only thing that will keep me from going crazy. I do everything other then the cam shows lol. I'm not saying they are easy, cause lord kknows they are tough on her. But trying to get a site off the ground, well everyone here knows that violin story.

Originally Posted by pornrex

Seems like you've compromised yourself for the oldest trick in the book. Not to worry. You are going to have to develop a contingency plan for you, Juggs. Obviously something is not proper within you. If you are comfortable in this situation then I apologize for jumping the gun here. If not, think where this might be headed. There are usually Three possible outcomes: The Good. The Bad. Or The Ugly. *cue the spaghetti western music*

I am comfortable in how things are. I'm not comfortable with her not telling her parents. I like them and got the impression they would have issues with what we are doing but would be able to deal with it, without a major out burst. I keep telling her to tell them now so it can be over with and any healing can begin. For me the worste thing that would happen is her parents would not want to talk with her anymore. If that were to happen the site would come down. And I would start wakeing up at 4:30am again, not going to bed at 3:30 am lol. I love my wife with every ounce and she loves me. The amount of shit we have been threw I can only judge on my past relationships. If thats any measure of secuity then I can be assured we are truly meant for each other.
LOL well I guess I really like this board as I have just posted so much personnal info lol.