choosing linking partners

[Pink Cheeks]

First off, I want to say this place is great - so much to be learnt here. I do have a question however and hope this is the right place for it.

My partner and I are developing our Reviews site and are having trouble figuring out where to list this site. Adult site reviews doesn't seem to be a popular category choice - and I have no idea of which category it would best fit into.

As well, I really don't know where to start on finding the best places to list this site - any suggestions would be much appreciated.