Just a heads up

[stuveltje]

Originally Posted by jennym

It is their father.....tell them. Sucks big time that you are put in that situation.

well thats my issue, i have contact with them, i would feel so bad not telling them that their dad is dying....i cant deal with that... i have to tell, i think even no contact, the kids have a right to know, thats its their choise to say i go visite him or not.....i also think its a bad choise of the new wife to say to me to not tell, hell i am here in that fam for 23 years she is around for 10 years, she doesnt know shit, she cant demand i wont tell ....i cant, now ofcourse you can say what about your hubby, my hubby feels already guilty he is the only one of the kids being there, but hell if the other kids dont know......i told hubbie this eve my thinking. he agreed, i am gonna tell tomorrow, lett the new wife hate me...i dont fucking care, i am longer around in that fam then her...his kids have the right to know