Just a heads up

[stuveltje]

butt thats not the only issue bugging me, why the heck ,that woman tells us one month later that my hubbies dad has a heart problem, that makes me just as pissed this time, it took me 2 years to find out that both my parents have brains issues, my dad have got 2 ...how you name it...small brain attacks ( vains explode in your brain) he never told me also not my mom, but i knew....i knew, but here is the issue, last summer i walked into the summerhome of my parents with both of my kids (my parents have a summerhome near by mine) i walked in, i saw my mom knock out on the sofa and my dad with a white face, my kids where with me, i asked my dad what the fuck is going on, he said" your mom didnt feel well and fall down" i said why the fuck didnt you call the doc, he didnt answer me, so i did, that time i found out both my parents have a "vain in their brain issue" sounds funny, but i asked my dad why didnt you tell me????? the same i ask the new wife of my fatherinlaw why she didnt tell us he had a heart problem, isnt it wise to tell your kids what is going on, maybe they wanna prevent their kids from worriing, but hell i like to know all, because the brain issue my parents have ...the doc told me i will have the same, i would like to know what my hubby is dealing with, he has to know and i told him, its not sure i get it, but the chance i get it is big, but we dont deal with that know, now my dad understand why i didnt allow my kids to get in the boat with him at the summerhome, he didnt tell me but i figured out something was wrong and i didnt wanted to take the chance my kids came in a situation their granddad got an attack and they had to deal with it themself, i also asked him why the fuck you didnt tell, he didnt want us to worrie, i said wrong thinking, because you didnt tell i made my own conclusion, i said but telling us, would be better then we know what to deal with when something happens.............parents