Newbie seeking advice

[ScreamingOrgasm]

This is my first adult site and I am having trouble figuring out how to get traffic to my site and how to get the traffic that is there to start participating.

My site doesn't fall most of the categories that are availabe with most link lists and I have too many free pics to qualify for other link lists. My site is a free site but there is a public area and a member area people have to sign up to get into the members area but it is free to sign up.

We have forums, personal ads, thumbnail galleries, member galleries, live chat, erotic stories, etc.

We are also not having many people sign up at this point. We have 30 sign ups out of about 472 visitors. I dont know maybe that is typical.

I just ordered some content cd's and should have them in a few days so I will have some fresh content for the ladies finally! I have several ideas in the works including some interviews, contests and hosted chats.

I would love it if you would visit the site and offer some feedback as to how I might improve the site or if there are any major no-no's that I may have committed.

You can access the members area with the following temp. pass.

username: ANS (all caps)
password: freepass (all lowercase)

I would also love some advice on the best way to promote an adult site. I am used to dealing with mainstream sites and don't have a clue where to begin with an adult site. Where would you send press releases, best places to advertise (that won't cost and arm and a leg), link exchanges etc.

Thanks for your time.

Tina