Fucking NUTTER Thinks My Site Is Real!! (ideas??)

[ABitDifferent]

Yes I am cracked

Some of you may no me already from cozycampus r fhgstore forums, others I am new to however I am not new bdsm or bdsm websites. First of all if you keep with the news you'd realize yahoo has removed all bdsm related chats and images because they are being sued for not removing a cached imaged from another site. You obviosuly don't understand the law at all and i suggest you read up on it. To post content provided by a site that is 2257 compliant does not make your site complaint it makes you site a secondary producer. As as secondary producer you also need the documents. You are breaking the law. Period.

Second what your site is doing, whether its for personal or commercial purposes is promoting abuse to those who are serious about bdsm. Do you not realize people actually live his lifestyle? You tink its all models and horny guys? You don't use alt.com or collarme.com do you? TONS of people are serious about it. Master/slave relationships exist.

You site tries to promote the fact that its okay for a man looking to be a master to not be safe and sane. You are going against everything every other bdsm website says. You are trying to tell wouldbe masters and slaves that its okay to be treated as dogs. I don't care if your intention is merely to make a few dollars in the adult industry, you can still promote safe, sane, and consentual. You are not doing so, I am. So are most other commercial websites.

Look at the sites I link to? Do you really think Mistress V is not making money? She makes a great deal of money and promotes anti-violence in the process. Same for katja Minx. In fact she makes probably more money then all of us combined. Or how about that of Buck Angel who is a real life transexual and one of the first female to male adult porn sites to be successful, yet he lives the lifestyle.

Most people are not out there telling others its okay to be abusive, even those who are not real about it. Most of them still promote safe, sane, and consentual. You said screw it, you don't care who gets abuses who as long as you get your good old american dollar in the process. Hell why not just go make snuff films, theres far more money and you promote the same general idea, safety and life is not to be valued as long as someone gets there rocks off and someonbe else gets paid.

[kristian]

Originally Posted by ABitDifferent

Yes I am cracked

Some of you may no me already from cozycampus r fhgstore forums, others I am new to however I am not new bdsm or bdsm websites. First of all if you keep with the news you'd realize yahoo has removed all bdsm related chats and images because they are being sued for not removing a cached imaged from another site. You obviosuly don't understand the law at all and i suggest you read up on it. To post content provided by a site that is 2257 compliant does not make your site complaint it makes you site a secondary producer. As as secondary producer you also need the documents. You are breaking the law. Period.

Second what your site is doing, whether its for personal or commercial purposes is promoting abuse to those who are serious about bdsm. Do you not realize people actually live his lifestyle? You tink its all models and horny guys? You don't use alt.com or collarme.com do you? TONS of people are serious about it. Master/slave relationships exist.

You site tries to promote the fact that its okay for a man looking to be a master to not be safe and sane. You are going against everything every other bdsm website says. You are trying to tell wouldbe masters and slaves that its okay to be treated as dogs. I don't care if your intention is merely to make a few dollars in the adult industry, you can still promote safe, sane, and consentual. You are not doing so, I am. So are most other commercial websites.

Look at the sites I link to? Do you really think Mistress V is not making money? She makes a great deal of money and promotes anti-violence in the process. Same for katja Minx. In fact she makes probably more money then all of us combined. Or how about that of Buck Angel who is a real life transexual and one of the first female to male adult porn sites to be successful, yet he lives the lifestyle.

Most people are not out there telling others its okay to be abusive, even those who are not real about it. Most of them still promote safe, sane, and consentual. You said screw it, you don't care who gets abuses who as long as you get your good old american dollar in the process. Hell why not just go make snuff films, theres far more money and you promote the same general idea, safety and life is not to be valued as long as someone gets there rocks off and someonbe else gets paid.

I would usually make an intelligent reply to any negative remarks made against me. In truth, I honestly believe you are a few cans short of a six pack, so I will keep this short and light-lighted.

You're this offended now? You ain't seen nothing yet.

[Mr. Blue]

Originally Posted by ABitDifferent

Yes I am cracked

Some of you may no me already from cozycampus r fhgstore forums, others I am new to however I am not new bdsm or bdsm websites.

Actually I post at CC and do know your posts and you never seemed cracked but there's always a first time for everything

To post content provided by a site that is 2257 compliant does not make your site complaint it makes you site a secondary producer. As as secondary producer you also need the documents. You are breaking the law. Period.

I'll be the first to correct you here...she's not breaking the law at all. You see where she's from? England...see 2257 is an American law, not a world law, so you're completely WRONG and out of line when you suggest she's breaking the law.

Second what your site is doing, whether its for personal or commercial purposes is promoting abuse to those who are serious about bdsm. Do you not realize people actually live his lifestyle? You tink its all models and horny guys? You don't use alt.com or collarme.com do you? TONS of people are serious about it. Master/slave relationships exist.

You'll find that 99% of most adult blogs are more fantasy mixed with a nice dose of advertising. People that are into BSDM will know which sites are legit and which aren't...I think you're naive to the fact that most of adult blogging is mere fantasy than anything based in reality.

As for making a profit from alt.com, etc, and selling other products...welcome to adult webmastering 101.

One thing I would like to add...you don't have to link to her site and you can write your blog articles about her site, but you're probably not doing yourself any good in a business sense right now. Adult webmasters, more than any other group, rely heavily on a persons reputation.

Honestly the way I would have handled it...if you're a master and really believe in this stuff, I would have just dropped links with her, but I wouldn't have posted an article about her...just a bad business move.

[Useless]

Fucking newbie.

This is a business. We're here to make money from people's twisted fantasies. Just because you don't agree with the theme of a FICTIONAL blog, doesn't mean that surfers don't. I'll guarantee you that for every simple little shit like yourself, there's 100 guys slamming their stiff pricks against their keyboards when they read Kristian's text.

Another thing - surfers don't care about 2257.

[Mr. Blue]

Originally Posted by Useless Warrior

Fucking newbie.

This is a business. We're here to make money from people's twisted fantasies. Just because you don't agree with the theme of a FICTIONAL blog, doesn't mean that surfers don't. I'll guarantee you that for every simple little shit like yourself, there's 100 guys slamming their stiff pricks against their keyboards when they read Kristian's text.

Another thing - surfers don't care about 2257.

lol, amazing how UW captured the spirit of my post in one short paragraph...but basically...yeah what UW said.

[ABitDifferent]

...You see where she's from? England...see 2257 is an American law...

Actually you are only half correct as reality check network corp is based out of Brooklyn, NY, which makes it a violation

... People that are into BSDM will know which sites are legit and which aren't...

Have you raed the comments of her posters? They want to learn from her or I wouldn't have a problem with it!

...but you're probably not doing yourself any good in a business sense right now...

You have to realize my site is not intended for porn seekers. If it was I'd agree. However those who read my site are lifestylers and I get tons of comments from others agreeing with me. They are almost always happy when I point out a website is a fraud in it for the money. In fact it tends to bring me more sales on porn toys and such.

On a further note., I never meant to offend anyone. It was not I who asked for a link trade. Typically when you ask another blog for a link trade, you know if they are getting the type of traffic you blog is aiming at. Being how my site is nothing but lifestylers of bdsm, not porn seekers, the request never should have been sent.

Obviously if I am trading links with a website, the website in question is getting bdsm lifestyler traffic not people interested in porn. This was not a fault of my own I did not ask for this trade. I merely posted why we are not trading links and told the lifestylers who read my blog why they should not trust what she says. If I don't do that, someone is going to get seriously abused.

However I must say, my compliments to the webmistress. You are extremely talented. I was totally fooled and had no idea you were a commercial blog. Had I realized this I would have denied the request from the start. Yes I have seen so much abuse in bdsm that I believed you were legit and in your own words "on a learning curve"

[Mr. Blue]

Being in England she's not required to maintain the documents as a secondary producer. Should could switch registrar/hosting and basically fob off 2257 completely. However, she has a compliancy notice, I'm sure the DOJ is going to fly to England to check her (you see where this is going? lol).

The fact of the matter is that there's tons of blogs out there at the moment. I have one small blog and trust me it has nothing to do with reality. As a porn webmaster you're selling the unreal to people that want to buy the unreal and participate in this mutual fantasy.

I stick by what I originally said though...you're not doing yourself any favor by going after her on your blog. The people that visit her blog most likely just enjoy reading it, getting randy, jacking off, and moving on.

All I can say is that 99% of blogs are fantasy...you might be the 1% that isn't...she most likely signed up for a trade with you because she thought you were just another regular webmaster turning some coin on a fetish like 99% of the other blogs. If you go to her trading partners and start ranting, you'll soon find that most of them will have the knee jerk reaction "This guy can't be for real"

Even if this isn't a business for you, you want traffic to your blog, want to get that blog well-known, and the best way to do that is to work with other adult webmasters. So, chill, maybe consider removing that blog entry, and just let the trade die without the extra commentary.

[kristian]

Believe it or not, I hold no ill-will towards ABitDifferent, providing this goes no further. It takes all kinds to make a world and if we all viewed the world with the same set of eyes, it would be a very boring place indeed. On a serious note, however, I would remind you (ABitDifferent) that I am a professional adult webmaster, a well-paid one at that, and therefore not the kind of person to antagonize. I suggest, as nice as I possibly can, that you chill and walk away. I could point a great many holes in all of this but I wont because, quite honestly, life is too short to argue.

In the spirit of fun and hopefully an ending to hostilities (not that any arose from my part), here is something for you to laugh at ABitDifferent.

A Link To SlaveWifeBlog (ok for everyone else to click, nothing dangerous)

No hard feelings, mate!

[Mr. Blue]

Originally Posted by kristian

A Link To SlaveWifeBlog (ok for everyone else to click, nothing dangerous)

No hard feelings, mate!

bahahaha, oops, hehe.

btw, umm, do you sound like Mary Poppins? What? I'm just thinking MaryPoppinsSexBlog with .mp3 files would be an interesting...umm...okay nevermind...I don't want other nanny blogs contacting you all pissy like.

[kristian]

Originally Posted by Mr. Blue

bahahaha, oops, hehe.

btw, umm, do you sound like Mary Poppins? What? I'm just thinking MaryPoppinsSexBlog with .mp3 files would be an interesting...umm...okay nevermind...I don't want other nanny blogs contacting you all pissy like.

You . . . are . . . amazing! No word of a lie, I actually based the writing voice on Julie Andrews! LOL My daughter watches Princess Diaries 2 every day (with me, it was superman and star wars) and her vernacular is kinda stuck in my head so I just went with it.