A friendly debate on what is amateur .

[furrygirl]

Originally Posted by sbm4latinaz

Who said anything about lower class? I'm not talking about a "trashed out" apartment , I'm simply talking about a place that looks LIVED IN .
My house is clean most of the time , but after I have a few buddies over, yes there will be dead cigs in the ashtray , and empty pizza box on the coffe table , or a few beer bottles in view. since when is that lower class ? I just go for a look that says" hey this was not planned a week in advance".

I'm not saying everyone who doesn't live in an immaculately clean home is a welfare recipient, or that every low-income person is filthy. You've repeatedly used the image of having garbage lying around the scene as a good indication of the "real amateur" status of content, and as I said before, that just feels like you're looking for the *cliche* of lower-class surroundings. Call me a snob, but I suppose I do stereotype leaving garbage sitting around in one's home to be a "trashy" thing, pardon the pun.

Originally Posted by sbm4latinaz

Its not the junk thats erotic in and of itself , It's the feel it creates , the spur of the moment, the memories of college etc etc ....

Well, I think we're just arguing about taste at this point. It really sounds like since *you* personally feel sexually comfortable in messy "lived in" surroundings, you assume that's what everyone else likes the most.

I also love porn sites made by the people they feature, people you can interact with and get to know a a bit, but I still thinks it's gross to purposefully not clean up when shooting content. It doesn't feel "spontaneous" to me, it just feels lazy and gross.

For example, I shot a set a few weeks ago in a part of my hall where my cat box normally is. Would it have been sexier of me to leave the cat box there, kitty poops and all, in full view while I played with my pussy? No, because that's gross. A web girl friend and I have this one "amateur" photo we've repeatedly gotten a laugh from and been grossed out by because you can see the chick's filthy, dropping-laden bird cage in the frame and she bends over and spreads. I swear, I'm not alone in my interest in cleaning up my surroundings before taking pictures.

Originally Posted by sbm4latinaz

I agree , but like I said , its not about meeting your members , its about promoting an IMAGE of attainability , meaning this is the TYPE of woman I could hook up with.

Originally Posted by sbm4latinaz

I agree , there should be no tricking people .

I don't see a difference between "promoting the image" that a model is available for banging and "tricking" the viewer into thinking she's available for banging.

I would like to think I run a reasonably successful "amateur" site, and I work to NOT make people think they have a chance with me. I really don't think you need to use any element of tricky or deceit or "image projection" to run a good single girl site.