Google Dislikes Pages Like This?

[Halfdeck]

OK, so if I want link trades for Girls That Squirt it's better to have webmasters contact me via e-mail to discuss how we're going to link to each other and not have a page telling them what text I want?

Right. You want to randomnize your anchor text a bit anyway. If you can dig up websites that will link to you without requesting a linkback, so much the better.

I guess the best thing to do is to sit back and wait for webmasters to want to link to my site because it's a good site but that might take years...

It probably will